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The Man Trap
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The Man Trap

On the Trials of Modern Manhood

1843, 2017

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Editorial Rating

8

Qualities

  • Controversial
  • Eye Opening
  • Overview

Recommendation

With a career, housework and child rearing, is it easier for a mother than a father to do it all? One Manhattan lawyer doesn’t think so. In fact, men are more likely than women to slog through long hours to support their families and less likely to take the parental leave they crave. Outdated social norms hurt men, too. Economist contributor Emily Bobrow covers a discussion about masculinity you don’t hear nearly enough. getAbstract still recommends this read to those interested in modern gender roles.

Take-Aways

  • People tend to celebrate stay-at-home mothers but demonize fathers who cut back their hours to care for children. 
  • Because white professional men enjoy a lot of privileges, they’re often reticent to talk about pressures they face from traditional gender roles. 
  • Men who fit into narrow standards of masculinity get special privileges, while those who transgress into so-called feminine roles – like child-rearing – lose status.

About the Author

Emily Bobrow is a regular contributor to The Economist and 1843 Magazine and lives in New York City, New York.