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The Surprising Benefits of a Quiet Ego
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The Surprising Benefits of a Quiet Ego

Susan Cain, 2022


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7

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  • Scientific
  • Applicable
  • Eye Opening

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In this brief, captivating article for Susan Cain, cognitive psychologist Scott Barry Kaufman outlines research showing the ancient teachers might have got it right: Transcending the self can bring inner peace and contentment – as well as a host of other benefits. Citing recent work in social psychology, Kaufman offers an intriguing insight into the culture of self-enhancement, arguing for a balance between self-esteem and the old-fashioned virtue of humility.

Take-Aways

  • Having a quiet ego means turning down the volume on the self so you can listen to others and your surroundings.
  • People who have a quiet ego feel present, connected to others, empathetic toward others and open to personal growth.
  • A quiet ego brings many benefits, including greater empathy, compassion and inner peace, as well as reduced death anxiety.

About the Author

Cognitive scientist Scott Barry Kaufman is scientific director of the Imagination Institute in the Positive Psychology Center at the University of Pennsylvania. He researches the mind, creativity and human potential. His books include Transcend: The New Science of Self-Actualization and Ungifted: Intelligence Redefined.