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Beyond Reason
Book

Beyond Reason

Using Emotions As You Negotiate

Penguin, 2006
First Edition: 2005 更多详情


Editorial Rating

9

Qualities

  • Innovative
  • Applicable

Recommendation

Far too many books treat negotiation as a rational process, as if the parties involved are calculating machines (or close to it). Authors Roger Fisher and Daniel Shapiro show that is not the case. They explain how emotions affect negotiating, and provide tools based on five core emotional concerns for dealing with powerful feelings at the negotiating table. This slender book is clearly written, and the authors illustrate each point in their theoretical framework with examples from their extensive experience. The result is an immediately applicable book that provides a host of practical tips. getAbstract recommends it to anyone who negotiates...and that means just about everyone.

Take-Aways

  • You don’t negotiate with your head alone. Your heart and gut are involved, too.
  • Deal with emotions by addressing the core concerns that generate them: “appreciation, affiliation, autonomy, status and role.”
  • Express appreciation. This will put people at ease and help them negotiate creatively.

About the Authors

Roger Fisher is director of the Harvard Negotiation Project, co-author of Getting to YES, and an experienced negotiator. Daniel L. Shapiro, associate director of the Harvard Negotiation Project, is on the faculty at Harvard Law School.


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