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Talking to Crazy
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Talking to Crazy

How to Deal with the Irrational and Impossible People in Your Life

AMACOM, 2015 更多详情


Editorial Rating

8

Qualities

  • Innovative
  • Applicable

Recommendation

Psychiatrist Mark Goulston explains why some people act irrationally and helps you identify different modes of acting crazy. He shares proven psychiatric tricks and techniques for dealing with people who behave somewhat off the wall, but he carefully distinguishes between momentary irrationality and serious mental or emotional disorders (in which case, he says, enlist professional help). He provides a rich toolbox for the situations you can try to handle, if only to get through someone’s temporary outburst in the office. Some of his strategies apply to dealing with people in the workplace, while others will help you if a loved one behaves irrationally. Goulston’s career is rich in experience and expertise, even if a few of his examples seem somewhat removed from the real world, a little manipulative or even self-protectively callous. While never giving medical advice, getAbstract suggests his insights might be useful to anyone who leads or interacts with other people.

Take-Aways

  • If you treat people who behave irrationally as if they are crazy, they’ll act crazier.
  • Before you deal with someone who acts crazy, recognize your own irrational tendencies and do your best to neutralize them.
  • Employ the six-step “sanity cycle” to help irrational people:

About the Author

Former FBI hostage-negotiation trainer Mark Goulston, MD, is a psychiatrist, consultant, coach and business adviser.


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    O. A. 9 years ago
    I never tried to "lean into the crazy", I think this could work really well in some situations.
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    V. V. 9 years ago
    That was extremely helpful.