The Power of the Phoenix Process

When your life is on fire, consider letting it burn. Chances are only the things that no longer serve you will perish.

Many cultures feature a myth about a bird – often called a phoenix – that rises from the ashes after a devastating fire. In some versions, the bird senses the need for change and builds the pyre itself, piling frankincense, myrrh, herbs and branches in a heap, before setting itself aflame. When only a pile of smoking embers remains, a new bird bursts from the ashes, shining and magnificent. This idea of destroying yourself to re-create yourself is nothing short of magical.

When your life is on fire, you may frantically try to put out the flames. Or you might continue to plod along – simply because that’s what you think you’re supposed to do – even as your inner voice tells you that you’re not living to your fullest potential. The result? You wear yourself out, get sick or live half a life. Have you ever considered letting the fire burn away the things that no longer...