Awaken Your Genius

Personal change means leaving behind who you were before.

People often sleepwalk through life. They follow someone else’s script, chasing outward success without asking why. When you begin to chart your own course, you will transform. As a result, your whole life might change.

When a caterpillar transforms into a butterfly, it first disintegrates. The undoing precedes the remaking. Your metamorphosis may be the same.

Change is not easy. Personal transformation might mean leaping into the unknown without a safety net or giving up a position you worked hard to secure. Others may feel confused or threatened by the alterations they see in you, especially if they have chosen stagnation.

To carve out space for self-discovery, take a step back from your identity, beliefs and tribe.

In the same way that a snake must shed its skin to grow, you may need to shed the trappings of your current life to move forward.

First, recognize that many aspects of the identity you hold right now – your job, relationships, self-perceived strengths and weaknesses – are not essential parts of...