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I Hear You
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I Hear You

Repair Communication Breakdowns, Negotiate Successfully, and Build Consensus...in Three Simple Steps

AMACOM, 2014 more...


Editorial Rating

7

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  • Applicable

Recommendation

Workplace communication breakdowns happen when a boss, subordinate, client or co-worker refuses to budge from his or her point of view. Coach and mediator Donny Ebenstein provides practical solutions for overcoming common workplace conflicts. He shows you how to identify with different perspectives even when you disagree with them. He covers dealing with an overbearing boss, dividing a workload more equally among team members, balancing work with your personal life, developing better client relationships, and more. On the plus – and minus – side, Ebenstein offers pages and pages of sample dialogues to illustrate how difficult situations can either escalate or achieve a solution. The examples are useful, but their repetition is tedious. Even so, he provides worthy advice about understanding another person’s viewpoint – the cornerstone of a more peaceful, productive workplace. getAbstract recommends his methods to supervisors, subordinates and colleagues who are struggling to understand each other.

Take-Aways

  • At one time or another, most people have felt powerless to change a difficult relationship or communication breakdown at work.
  • “It begins with you. You have the power to shift your most stuck situations.”
  • You can’t change others, only yourself.

About the Author

Donny Ebenstein is an international coach and mediator in the private and public sectors who specializes in conflict resolution in the Middle East.


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    S. F. 8 years ago
    Good tips for anyone customer facing and particularly in a customer service role
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    R. E. 10 years ago
    Tesr